That's the title of a Say Anything song that sums up (I think) a lot of what people have experienced on datingish. You may not have personally experienced this, but the song talks about people saying or doing certain things to get other people in bed. (It's a pretty good song if you like that kind of music.)
Lately though, I've been perusing datingish seeing posts talking about how either you don't know what love is, when to say "I love you" , or if it's even worth it. The sub-context of these articles is that most people say "I love you" or use a relationship as a means to gain sex. First of all, people who do that should be shot. That's beyond wrong. It's lower than low and I've known some grimy people. Secondly, who honestly says that? I've never heard of people doing that until I've came to this site. Maybe I'm naive or just ignorant. Or gay. I'm not trying to use my sexuality as an excuse to demean all you straight people. But think about it. It's been in the movies; a guy wanting to get in a girls pants by being all romantic and charming wrapping up with them on the bed, just finished making out, him on top of her, then he says "I love you". Bam. Insta-screw.
I know, I know- no one believes television. (Ha.) But in the gay community, they just skip the "I love you"s and bang. I'm not generalizing either, so let the hate commenting begin. Oh yea, that's called "hooking up". I hate that. It has become an epidemic.
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